Nowadays.
“Not every woman wants to be in a relationship. Some just want good company. Someone to vibe with, converse with, laugh with & make funny faces at. Not every woman is in a rush. Start off simple & let the rest find itself. Because in all honesty, having someone to talk to & feeling comfortable around them, it’s a beautiful & good feeling. Minds connecting, both on on the same page. No bullshit. Just someone that actually listens to you, your thoughts & wonders.”
Why can’t I just date a guy and not call him my boyfriend? Why can’t I just have a relationship with somebody that I like talking to without all these strings? I just don’t get it. If I enjoy your company, forget the labels. Who cares?
What’s meant to be will be. If you talk to other girls, then I can’t really stop you from WANTING to talk to other girls. If I talk to other guys, you can’t stop me from wanting to talk to other guys.. so why do we try to limit our significant others? We just have to trust that what we can offer for them is enough. And if it isn’t, then just move on. Love is about that risk. You shouldn’t punish the person for doing what their heart desires, because if at that moment it doesn’t desire you, there’s either something wrong with the relationship or wrong with that person. So why even label a relationship? I’m not trying to trap someone into something with me. If I say I’m just talking to someone, regardless of the time, then I’m just talking to someone.. do not label my relationship with people for your benefit. (P.S. Like when someone tells me so-and-so is my boyfriend. WTF? Did I say he was? No. So STFU. Thanks.)
Sometimes I just want to have a good time. Flirting. Attraction. Things of that sort without the pressure of labels. Sometimes I feel like the thought of a relationship is going to kill that good mood feeling. I’m just saying that life throws us curveballs and God will deal out a weird hand but, you do what you gotta with what you got. If s/he’s talking to someone, yes it’s going to hurt but don’t concentrate on what happened but why and how you can prevent it from happening again. So if I say someone is my boyfriend, I’m not naming my property, I’m saying “I care about this person and they care about me. Come and dare and try to break our bond apart. He’s free to do what he wants. But in the end, he wants me. And he will always choose me. I dare you to try.” So I get excited when I care enough about someone and I actually invite home-wreckers to try to wreck it. And if they succeed, well they weren’t my meant to be, and I’ll hurt but I’ll find him eventually. But like I said, I’m not ready for that, I just want to vibe. So, let’s just vibe. (:
(Disclaimer: However, I’m not forgiving of home-wreckers. Especially marriage home-wreckers.)
Tagged as: vibe. relationships. love. dating.
